What is a moderate Muslim?

A moderate must be like a "backslider babtist". If he truly believes in the teachings of his religeon then he can't be a moderate. Having lived in a muslim country and reading some of the koran, I know that any true muslim has the duty to either convert me or to kill me and the "people of the book". There is no middle ground. Either you do the will of Allah and his prophet Mohammed or you die.