Why is it that most people only ever group social cl and abuse together?

The one common denominator in abuse is it is kept under wraps.The abuser is very adept at keeping it that way any abuse is just as likely to go overlooked it doesn't matter what the back ground is.I ume nothing when it comes to abuse and nothing surprises me I was ually abused from the age of eight until I was in my mid 30s(not a family member)The only uming I did was that's what my life was all about.I got my chance at freedom when other victims came to light.